These are all questions we ask ourselves at one time or another. The answer is: God wants to be friends!
Imagine that!! Being the friend of God!
Sounds crazy - almost sacrilegious!
But, it's not. The whole reason God created Adam was for fellowship!
The Bible refers to Abraham as "the friend of God", in James 2:23. And, what did he do to deserve this title? The whole verse says, "And the scripture was fulfilled which saith, Abraham believed God, and it was accounted to him for righteousness: and he was called the Friend of God."
Plain and simply, Abraham believed God. That's all! (I can do that!)
More about Abraham's friendship with God - Hebrews 11:8-13 & 17-19
Developing a Friendship with GodI can tell you my name and my favorite color. I can tell you the title of my favorite book, and the chores I dread. I can tell you my favorite food, and my birth date. I can tell you all kinds of things about myself, but until you spend time with me, you will never truly know me!
You can even do things for me. You can get my groceries, walk my dog, wash my dishes or clean my house, but you still won't KNOW me!
It's the same with God! We can DO (or not do!) things for Him all day long. We can follow rules and obey laws. We can know that He will save us and protect us. We can know that He created the world in 7 days and that He will provide all our needs. We can know that He is in control. We can know that the Bible is His Love Letter to us. We can know that He died on the cross to forgive sins. But, until we truly KNOW Him, we will never have a relationship, or a FRIENDSHIP with Him!
Did you know it is possible to be a Christian and yet not have a "friendship" with God?
How do I get to KNOW God? Here are a few ways:
- Read His word! Schedule time out of every day to meet in your "secret place". (It doesn't really have to be a secret place - just a special place!) Forget about reading 7 chapters every day so you can say you read the whole Bible through in a year. Just read the Bible until you "hear from Him". Read until you have something to meditate on for that day. Read until you run out of time. Read until you love reading and can't wait till it's time to read again!
- Find God's promises and claim them for yourself!!
- Find a "life verse" and refer to it every time you need to be encouraged!
- PRAY about everything! It has been said that "every failure in life is a prayer failure."
- Keep a prayer journal - keep a running list of all the prayer requests that God answers for you.
- Keep a list of all the things God provides for you and your family, and refer back to it every time you need to be encouraged! You'll be amazed at the things God has done for you and you'll be reminded that He "came through before" and He can do it again.
- Tell your children and your friends when He provides or blesses you.
- Sit quietly after you've finished your Bible reading and wait on God. You'll be surprised what He has to say in those few moments of peace and solitude.
- Give God all the honor and glory for anything good that happens in your life. Don't forget to look for God's blessing in the dark times, too!
- Put your faith into action!! Act on what you know! Don't just KNOW God's promises! Claim them! Obtain them!! Live every moment of the day conscious of His presence with you.